Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Wisaka believes in "give and take"


Wisaka

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How do you define friendship?

I think it’s hard to make new friends but it’s hard to develop a relationship to become a good friendship, and it’s harder to take care of the friendship, as well. For me, a good friendship is give and take. Friends who are ready to listen when you want to tell how happy you are but they are also ready to understand and forgive when you are wrong or mistaken, are real, true friends. Sometimes we spend a lot of time together but when time goes by, we grow up and have our direction of life that made us far away. However, we are still concerned for each other. When you are happy, I will be glad for you. Whenever you have a trouble, break down, be discouraged about something, I won’t help you, if you can recover by yourself, I will be pleased. But once you can’t, I will be there to encourage you, and you can rely on me, too. Although sometimes we’ve lost in contact, we know we still care and be concerned for each other. I will take care of our friendship as always. Having really good friendships are like one part of a successful life. If you have good friendships, please take care of your friendship as you can.

5 comments:

  1. I agree with u. Friend is part of a successful life. we can't live without friends and it's too difficult to find a real friend. there's a saying I want to share it with you " think one time whrn yiu choose friends but think a hundred time if you want to change them "

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  2. ah! I like this saying. I know someone who has recently 'ditched' a boyfriend because of one unfortunate incident. He is a lovely person and they are very well suited. Perhaps by thinking 100 times (or even just twice) instead of an instant knee-jerk response, she would still have him as a friend.

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  3. You are right Wisaka. If you give people, people will give you. In my opinion, I believe that giving people support in hard times is more important than giving them a smile in happy times.

    Well done.
    I enjoyed reading here ;)

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  4. yes, a good friendship needs give and take. it's really important. i ever had a friend who just liked to ask me to do something. finally,it really annoyed me. because it cost me a lots of times. and she didn't care. she just cared what she wanna do. so at the end i chose to leave her. now we r not friends at all. just see hello at meet. i think i'm right. friendship need pricipal and responsibility. and it's 2 people's things. not only one's.

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  5. I agree with your opinion.
    Friendship needs give and take!

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