Actually, I tend to feel low easily, because I don't have any confidence in myself at all, but I don't want to lose.
In general, people who want to be winners work hard to win and get confidence. However, in my case even if I worked hard, I can't get any confidence. I can declare that I'm a negative person. What's the difference between a positive person and negative person? I think if you're a positive person, when you work hard to win, you can think I work very hard, so I can be a winner!, but if you're a negative person, you can think I worked very hard, but the other people must work hard, too! How can I expect I'll be a winner? That's the difference.
I realized that I'm a negative person, I'm trying to be a positive person. I try not to think things negatively. So when I feel a bit low, I think that that thinking was negative, wasn't it? How could it be more positive? Then is I get positive thinking at the time, I can feel better! It's my solution.
There is a really good song with lyrics that say "accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative....don't mess with in between". I think you would agree this is a good mandate to live by!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. it's like looking at another side then you'll get a surprise. I think negative thinking is not bad, except sometimes it might makes you more feeling down at yourself. Because I'm also a negative thinking. :D
ReplyDeleteDon't worry. There are always lots of friends supporting you. If you won, you won; if you lost, so what?! Just be yourself. Your biggest enemy is yourself!
ReplyDeleteWhen you tried hard, believe yourself. When you didn't try hard, don't believe yourself.
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